Activity

Note: Before you begin teaching, watch the “Can someone's sex be chosen?” video available at SophiaOnline.org/Transgender

1. Hold up the picture you brought in and tell the class, “This is Joe [or the person’s name]. Look at Joe.”
2. Then pause and say, “Now look at Joe’s body.” Pause. “Now, look at Joe again.”
3. Students may giggle or protest that it is the same thing. And of course, they are right!
4. Explain that to see Joe is to see Joe’s body, because we are our bodies. Similarly, to respect a person’s dignity, we must respect the fact that they are their bodies. Sometimes, people talk like the body is just a shell or a cage, and the real self is inside. This false idea is not what we believe as Christians. The body and soul are united in one person, and the body is just as much a part of you as your soul. Everything about your body, including your sex as male or female as God made you, is a part of who you are. To respect a person, therefore, means that we respect their body.
5. Continue to explain that because God made us, and we receive ourselves as a gift from God. So just as with any gift, there are things about ourselves that we do not choose, such as our eye color, height, or sex. God has, of course, has given us free will and the ability to determine a lot of things about our lives. Ask for a few volunteers to say some choices we can make about our lives. Our favorite foods, our hobbies, our friends, how we spend our free time, sports we play, and so forth.
6. Distribute to each student a God-Given or My Choice? Worksheet and make scissors and glue sticks available. Have them cut out the strips, and paste each one in the column in which it belongs.
7. When they have finished, recreate the chart on the board and review the correct answers together by writing them on the board.
8. Wrap up by explaining the following: Because we are God’s creatures, it is important that we accept about ourselves and others the things that God has given as gifts. Many of those gifts are things we cannot change, such as who our parents are, where we were born, and whether we are male or female. Our male or female bodies are a great gift that God has given us, and we ought to be thankful and respectful towards one another’s bodies. It can be harder to see our bodies as good when we experience pain, illness, and other maladies. There may be times when we wish our body could be more athletic, graceful, stronger, or otherwise different. We can have faith that at the Resurrection, we will see as God sees, and our bodies will perfectly reveal His love.
9. Close by praying together Psalm 139:13–14:
   You formed my inmost being;
   you knit me in my mother’s womb.
   I praise you, because I am wonderfully made;
   wonderful are your works!
   My very self you know.
10. Be sure to have parents watch the "Can someone's sex be chosen?" video available at SophiaOnline.org/Transgender for ideas on talking to their children.

Answer Key

God-Given or My Choice?

See Answer Key: God-Given or My Choice resource